Friday, January 28, 2011

Get Yourself Ready!

If you know anything about me, you know that I absolutely love being a worship leader. I feel like it is something that God hard wired me to do. There is just a joy that comes with being able to lead people in worship that I can’t begin to explain. For me, being able to see the look on someone’s face when they make a connection to God is priceless, it truly blesses my heart to see that happen. 

With all that said, one of my faults as a worship leader, is watching people’s outward expressions during worship and rating our worship experience on how people outwardly showed their worship. I’ll be real honest with you, I watch people during worship, and I feed off of people when they are outwardly expressing their worship, but I have to remind myself weekly that the way people respond outwardly is no rating on how our worship service went.  (I’m speaking of worship during our music services) 

The thing is no matter how much we “worship” outwardly none of it means anything unless your heart is in the right place. Our worship to God is not contingent on how many hands are raised in the air, or how many people are dancing. I’ve learned to ask myself after our worship services “did we honor Jesus with what we just did?” and if my answer is yes, then I can rest easy knowing that we pleased the heart of the Father and accomplished what we set out to do during our services, which is honor Him. 

All that said to say this; Worship does not have to be an outward expression. Can it be? Absolutely!  But worship is solely based on the attitude of your heart toward a giant loving God. Worship is an overflow of gratefulness for what Jesus has done for us. Your expression of worship may be lifting your hands and singing as loud as you can, it may be standing quietly in awe of Jesus, it may be laying flat on your face. Regardless of how you overflow and show that worship, make sure your heart is 100% solely focused on Him and nothing else! When we do that, we can rest assured our worship services will be pleasing to God.

As we head into the weekend let’s prepare our hearts to come together as the body of Christ, and see Him lifted on High! Let’s honor Him!
Psalm 122:1
I was glad when they said unto me, “Let us go into the house the Lord.”


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Wednesday, January 26, 2011

The Awkward 'Bro Hug'

So have you ever had one of those moments, where something so awkward, so embarrassing, so…well it just made you feel a little weird and uncomfortable, happened to you? One of those moments that will be forever engraved in your memory, right back there with the first time you had to change clothes in a locker room in front of your peers, or the first time you tried to kiss a girl/guy and you awkwardly puckered up, closed your eyes, shot, and missed the lips and landed somewhere in the vicinity of the left eye (just for the record that didn’t happen to me)Well I had one of those awkward moments about 2 months ago...
It was as awkward as a cow on roller skates...it was uncomfortable enough that others noticed and felt weird for me. So here’s my story…
Sunday mornings are great I love being able to see everyone that I don’t get to see throughout the week. It’s awesome because everyone (especially at my church) is so excited to see everybody. There are lots of hugs, high fives and chest bumps going around; It’s crazy! It’s like the Rangers won the pennant all over again! Ohk maybe not chest bumps and high fives, but it would be cool huh?!  So I’m following my regular routine, I finished up the worship set and I was heading down to my seat to sit with my wife. On the way I was doing my regular thing, I see people I haven’t seen that week, shake their hand, hug their neck, you know how it goes. Handshakes are good, hugs are good, but for those you are a little closer to, the much more proper ‘bro hug’ is where it’s at…and the awkwardness ensued

I spotted my friend Jesse sitting right behind my wife. Just like any other time, I stuck my hand out, shook his hand, and the ‘bro hug’ was in progress. You know how it goes, you shake hands first, and then you pull each other in for the quick ‘tap tap’ with the fist on the back. All was well, but something went devastatingly wrong… Jesse pulled the wrong way…

The whole world stopped…

It was like one of those moments in a movie where you can hear the music come to a screeching halt and everyone turns and stares with disbelief.

The ‘bro hug’ went awkwardly wrong… Since we both pulled into the same direction, somehow our faces met, and you could hear the sound of two 5 o’clock shadows scraping across each other (I had a lot of trouble typing that), like sandpaper scraping against a rough piece of wood. The noise it made was awful and overpowering, like long nasty nails on a chalk board, it drowned out the peaceful music of the announcement video playing in the background. When everything snapped back into real time, I heard chuckles and laughter to the side from people who had watched that happen,  and without a word, we avoided eye contact, sat down, and tried to play it off as if it that didn’t just happen. I’m not going to lie, I felt violated and a little dirty.

That was a scarring moment for me; Jesse and I still have trouble discussing that moment, in fact we try not to. Never again do I want to go through such an awful, horrible moment like that. So I want to make sure you (the reader) don’t ever experience this…so to close out this post out , I give you:

‘The 4 step process of the “Bro Hug”’

Step 1: Reach out your right hand just like a normal handshake and grab the other person’s hand firmly; no dead fish hand!

Step 2: Pull the other person to your RIGHT as you go to the LEFT. This step is vitally important! Any other variation of this motion could result in an awkward, scarring moment (see story above).

Step 3: With your left hand in a fist, give a quick double tap on the back. Anything more than two taps is just excessive.

Step 4: Release, do not make eye contact, and walk away.
If you follow this 4 step plan carefully, you should be able to avoid a lot of embarrassing moments. Feel free to print and post this in your church lobby, or your church bulletin. Help protect your congregation.


Ever had a scarring moment like this? Or did I miss any steps to the ‘bro hug’?  
Chime in! 


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Friday, January 21, 2011

Contentment, Craziness, and Betsy Bugs....

So I have this awesome connect group (home group) that meets at mine and Sarah’s house on Thursday evenings. Last night we were dissecting Romans 12 and a discussion was spurred that oddly enough had been on my heart earlier that day. I love when God does that, he’ll lay something on your heart and then… BAM! He high fives you in the face with it later!

We were talking about how in Romans 12 Paul names of the different parts of the body. He says “but all members do not have the same function”(12:4). The discussion came up about how God views each one of our callings as equal. Whether you are the one who is greeting people at the door on Sunday, or you are the one who is working the children’s ministry, or preaching, or scrubbing toilets. There is no calling that God views as greater than the other. Our job is to learn what God has called us to do at the stage of our life that we are in, do it with diligence, and become content with where we are.

Content: satisfied with what one is or has; not wanting more or anything else (Dictionary.com Unabridged
Based on the Random House Dictionary, © Random House, Inc. 2011.
)

Not only do we find content in what our “ministry” is, but also in where we are in life.

I remember when I moved out on my own, I had a desire to find the woman that I would be spending the rest of my life with. I knew she was out there, I did, and I took it upon myself to find her. In the process I dated some, ran from a lot, and found some CRAZIES! (Crazy as a betsy bug! that’s what my mom would say…what does that mean?!). Needless to say I got frustrated.

I finally came to terms with where I was in life, what God had called me to do, and I relinquished control completely to Him. Long story short, when I finally became content with where God had me, I was set up on a blind date, engaged 5 months later, and married 5 months after that!

The deal is, God knows exactly what is going on in your life, and He has you where you are for a reason, He hasn’t forgotten you. We have to trust Him and know that He is completely in control. We must become content in our ministry, our job, our lives and know that when God is ready to move us He will.

Find comfort in where you are today, embrace it, do what you are doing to the best of your ability, and God will be worshipped and honored through it.

I've learned by now to be quite content whatever my circumstances. I'm just as happy with little as with much, with much as with little. I've found the recipe for being happy whether full or hungry, hands full or hands empty. Whatever I have, wherever I am, I can make it through anything in the One who makes me who I am. Phil 4: 11b-13 The Message

Have you been frustrated with where you were in life, your ministry? What’s your story? Or do you know how crazy a betsy bug is? Chime in!



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Tuesday, January 18, 2011

The Meadows Family!

Welcome to my blog!
I'm so excited about this new year and all that changes that are going to come along with it.
One of the things Sarah and I are doing this year is that we are both kicking off into the blogging world. I'm hoping to give you some kind of inspiration and occasionally make you laugh from some of my postings. Secondly I'm hoping to use this year to write and record lots of my own music. My goal is to use this page to share that with you. So If you can stay tuned in and I hope to share all the things that are going on in my life this year with you guys! First things first though...Meet my family!

If you don't know me, and I'm guessing most of you do, my name is Philip I'm a worship pastor at a church and I am married to the most awesome and beautiful woman Sarah. We just recently got married (Oct 22, 2010) and we are just about 3 months into our marriage and we are loving every second of it! Sarah is an interior designer, so that means I get to live in the most incredibly decorated house (on a tight budget) in our neighborhood. We came to an agreement before we tied the knot
that she would do all the decorating and I would just play music...It's a good agreement, it works.

Sarah and I have two dogs that keep us entertained/frustrated on a daily basis. Stetson is our golden retriever which was Sarah's dog, and Annie is our Basset Hound/Beagle mix which was my dog. Here is a little bit about them.

Stetson - aka Yella Fella, Stetsaroni, Rascal.
Stetson is extremely smart always smiling and can do all kinds of tricks (great for parties). Stetson is what I like to call a broken retriever. It's like in his heart he knows he is supposed to play fetch, but when it comes down to it he is just to lazy to play. He always goes through the motions of putting the tennis ball in your lap, but when you throw it he looks at you like 'it's not worth it' and he lays back down. Stetson also likes to have his butt scratched, but who doesn't right?

Annie - aka Hoochie Face, Flops McGee, Stubs
She has a super cute face and lots of personality! Beneath that cute face and personality though Annie is quite mischievous. Things she has eaten/destroyed/chewed on include; a pin cushion, my favorite hat, remote control, toothbrush, another one of my favorite hats, Sarah's cell phone, Sarah's new shoes...need I keep going? Although she has destroyed a lot of things I still love her (Sarah is still working on it). Annie also has this weird fascination with the bath tub...I don't understand either. She has a patented move we like to call the steamroll...

So this is my family! I hope you keep coming back and checking out my page!










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